Romantic Ideas
Taken from
Askmen.com
Over the years, friends and faithful readers alike have
asked me one question more often than any other: What kind of advice can
you offer me on romance?
While I must have answered this question hundreds of times throughout
the years, it continues to resurface constantly, often with a greater
sense of urgency. In response to the many queries, I decided to take all
my secrets, suggestions, and romantic ideas, and put them down in
writing for the world to see.
I know many men, my husband included, who have a flair for romantic
ideas, sweet gestures, and spontaneity at the drop of a hat, so it's not
impossible to become a "romantic dude," so to speak. Even the most
masculine of "macho" men has the ability to plan a romantic dinner,
bring home flowers for no reason or simply find the time in a hectic day
to express admiration for his woman.The following are some simple
romantic ideas that will help you impress your lady without having to go
too far out of your way to do so. Prepare to dazzle her.
Make a list
Make a list of the special days on the calendar that you celebrate
together, such as the day you met, your yearly anniversary, or even the
anniversary of your first kiss. On these days make a point to spend some
quality time together. Cook a special meal (or pick one up on the way
home from work). Buy her a card or write her a short letter, and let her
know that you didn't forget.
Toast to her
Toast each other when you sit down to dinner. It doesn't need to be over
bubbly or wine, but even a glass of water or iced tea. Tell her
something you love about her and then drink to it!
Reach out and touch her
Use the power of touch to make a lasting impression throughout the day.
There is no such thing as not having time for a kiss goodbye in the
morning or again upon reuniting at the end of the day. And an inviting
warm hug or backrub at the end of a stressful day is always appreciated.
Create a photo album
Take pictures often; don't save the camera for holidays and special
occasions. Create a visual scrapbook of your everyday life together.
Better still, set the timer and pose together. You will both appreciate
the warmth of the moment when you see these snapshots in an album down
the road.
Take note of significant things
Set something aside for her every day. It might be a newspaper article
you read during your commute, a link to a website you came across, or
even a story you heard by the office water cooler. She will appreciate
that you took a moment to think of her during the course of your day.
Be thoughtful
Do something thoughtful for her every day. Whether it's making her a cup
of coffee in the morning, sticking a surprise note in her bag, or
leaving her a chocolate "kiss" on her pillow before bedtime, everyone
loves a romantic surprise.
Keep up your appearance
Let her see you at your best. It's ironic that we dress up to meet total
strangers but let ourselves go around our nearest and dearest. Most
women love to see their men clean-shaven, in great clothes and perhaps
wearing a hint of her favorite cologne.
Tell her about your moods
Be honest if you are feeling stressed or under the weather. Your woman
will appreciate your honesty and will know not to take it personally
when you come home in a bad mood.
Discuss your day
Sit down together when you get home and relate your daily experiences.
The best thing about spending time apart is that it makes you appreciate
each other more.
These simple yet effective romantic ideas should work wonders on any
woman.
Source:
http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_60/77_dating_girl.html
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